Parentalité
Parent et enfant/adolescent sont les two sides of the same coin.
If one of the two undertakes to explore the issues that emerge in everyday life, the other will also benefit. We are thus connected in the family system.
My experience of 15 years as a school teacher specializing in the great academic difficulties of adolescents has led me to meet many families in distress. In my support, you will find A appeasement and solutions regarding your family concerns. Each session brings out concrete keys to be implemented on a daily basis.
Do you feel like you need help?
Side parent
- You want to help your teenager to flourish, build themselves and be happy
- You worry about your teenager
- You would like to help him but you can't find how
- Other aspects of your life are impacted
- You feel guilty for not doing “better”
- You need help setting boundaries
- You go around in circles between helplessness, sadness and anger
Side teenager
- You are overwhelmed by your emotions
- You feel bad
- You need listening and support
- You feel awkward or misunderstood in your relationships with others
- You feel things about yourself that you don't know how to express
- You're looking for meaning in life but it's hard to find
- The future worries you
How does a consultation work?
There are several possibilities because I adapt to each situation. I can receive:
- A single parent even if the problem concerns a relationship with one of the children/teenagers, the couple or the entire family. By exploring what is happening within yourself, you open up new possibilities in the adjustment of other family members. We are the cogs of a family system capable of regenerating itself.
- Parent and teenagers together. The adolescent may prefer that the parent wait a few minutes outside at certain times during the session, while they unravel what is happening inside them without their gaze. However, the objective being to gradually learn to become aware of and express things, we always end the consultation with a moment between the three of us. This does not necessarily require you to say everything little by little; you learn to express without hurting. This also allows you to learn to recognize your limits: knowing how to tell others that there are things that you are not yet capable of saying and why.
- A child accompanied by a parent, from 8 years old. We put emotions and situations into words. I pass on techniques to help everyone better manage their emotions and express what they need. Together we find how to act rather than react.
Prices
Parent/teen consultation: €60
Duration: 45 minutes to 1 hour / 12 to 18 years old
Parent/child consultation: €50
Duration: 30 to 45 minutes depending on the child's receptivity / 8 to 11 years old
The financial question should not be a hindrance to your family harmony. If this is the case, contact me so that we can find a solution together.
NB: The support I offer is not psychotherapy. It is located in the field of helping relationships and personal development. It is aimed at people wishing to develop their inner resources and their autonomy to improve their quality of life and establish personal well-being. No consultation can replace diagnosis or medical monitoring, and no treatment must be stopped without the advice of the prescribing doctor.
